I went to my appointment with Womans Aid today and guess what?   They are putting us up in a flat, we leave on the 27th of this month and stay there untill we get somewhere of our own.  We haven't to tell him in case he becomes violent or something but i don't think he will it's not his nature, so he will be in for a shock!  We haven't to tell him where it is because it is womans aid policy and we can't have any male visitors while we are there either, but that won't bother me it's only him and sometimes my brother in law occationally that i see. 

So i will have to sort out what things we will be taking and try and get some things out gradually , i have to take our birth certificates and passports and anything sentimental and i will be taking the computer.  I actualy did something stupid on friday, i agreed to go back with him, i was drunk right enough and then on saturday i thought about it and decided i had made a mistake.  I said to him "i think i was being a bit hasty agreeing to go back with u, i need more time to think about it" and he said "take all the time u need but u know that i love u"  Well i don't love him n whats the point in staying in a relationship like that so roll on the 27th.  :) x